Talk:愛して愛して愛して (Aishite Aishite Aishite)/@comment-32528803-20170721043502/@comment-65.184.222.146-20180206205916

Do you have BPD? I do, and I really don't see it. Everytime there's a "creepy" Voca song having to do with love, someone on the wiki has to comment that it could be about BPD; it's clear people just see "scary" and "love" and think "borderline," and that's such a harmful simplification. One that has real-world consequences for how other people perceive and treat us.

How does a creepy necklace and being a good kid have anything to do with identity crisis, fragile sense of self, emotional hypersensitivity, fear of abandonment, and self-harm? If I sound skeptical it's because what else would I be when people are constantly trying to demonize people with BPD – who are ourselves victims of severe and prolonged trauma – everyday.

If you want a Vocaloid song that actually sounds like it could realistically be about BPD, from the POV of a legit Borderline person, try Lynne (for something more symbolic) or Renraku Mada (for something more literal). They're both very reminiscent of actual Borderline peoples' experiences, so you can pick those up for theorizing on your own time if you feel like it. But we don't need anymore shallow, uninformed theories like this.